Two Top Terrific Books of 2023


Today I went on the Amazon website and saw that there was a section of Meghan Trainor’s Favourite Recent Reads. Now at the moment I cannot share photos on my website which I am working on and will get more data on Wednesday but I couldn’t help but publish this article ASAP!

I clicked on the banner and there are two books that she recommended in which I aim to get soon so I can do a book review on them. I will see if they are at the local library on Thursday too, but here they are. They are the following:

  1. Change your Brain, Change your Life

BRAIN PRESCRIPTIONS THAT REALLY WORK


In this breakthrough bestseller, you’ll see scientific evidence that your anxiety, depression, anger, obsessiveness, or impulsiveness could be related to how specific structures in your brain work. You’re not stuck with the brain you’re born with. Here are just a few of neuropsychiatrist Dr. Daniel Amen’s surprising–and effective–“brain prescriptions” that can help heal your brain and change your life:


To Quell Anxiety and Panic:


¸ Use simple breathing techniques to immediately calm inner turmoil
To Fight Depression:
¸ Learn how to kill ANTs (automatic negative thoughts)
To Curb Anger:
¸ Follow the Amen anti-anger diet and learn the nutrients that calm rage
To Conquer Impulsiveness and Learn to Focus:
¸ Develop total focus with the “One-Page Miracle”
To Stop Obsessive Worrying:
¸ Follow the “get unstuck” writing exercise and learn other problem-solving exercises

2. What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

Oprah Winfrey and renowned brain development and trauma expert, Dr Bruce Perry, discuss the impact of trauma and adverse experiences and how healing must begin with a shift to asking ‘What happened to you?’ rather than ‘What’s wrong with you?’.

Through wide-ranging and often deeply personal conversation, Oprah Winfrey and Dr Perry explore how what happens to us in early childhood – both good and bad – influences the people we become. They challenge us to shift from focusing on ‘What’s wrong with you?’ or ‘Why are you behaving that way?’ to asking ‘What happened to you?’. This simple change in perspective can open up a new and hopeful understanding for millions about why we do the things we do, why we are the way we are, providing a road map for repairing relationships, overcoming what seems insurmountable, and ultimately living better and more fulfilling lives.

Many of us experience adversity and trauma during childhood that has lasting impact on our physical and emotional health. And as we’re beginning to understand, we are more sensitive to developmental trauma as children than we are as adults. ‘What happened to us’ in childhood is a powerful predictor of our risk for physical and mental health problems down the road, and offers scientific insights into the patterns of behaviours so many struggle to understand.

A survivor of multiple childhood challenges herself, Oprah Winfrey shares portions of her own harrowing experiences because she understands the vulnerability that comes from facing trauma at a young age. Throughout her career, Oprah has teamed up with Dr Bruce Perry, one of the world’s leading experts on childhood trauma. He has treated thousands of children, youth, and adults and has been called on for decades to support individuals and communities following high-profile traumatic events. Now, Oprah joins forces with Dr Perry to marry the power of storytelling with the science and clinical experience to better understand and overcome the effects of trauma.

In conversation throughout the book, the two focus on understanding people, behaviour, and ourselves in the context of personal experiences. They remove blame and self-shaming, and open up a space for healing and understanding. It’s a subtle but profound shift in our approach to trauma, and it’s one that allows us to understand our pasts in order to clear a path to our future – opening the door to resilience and healing in a proven, powerful way.

Grounded in the latest brain science and brought to life through compelling narratives, this book shines a light on a much-needed path to recovery – showing us our incredible capacity to transform after adversity.

These books may just change your life !!!!!

Hope you enjoyed reading.

Emmalisa

x

Update… … what’s happening rn.


It has been eight months!

Wow!

and O M G, so much has happened. I can’t even remember or know what to begin with! I am wondering really what has happened in between November 2022 and now. I have done a LOT! and you have probably been keeping up to date with my posts on my Instagram. But I have mainly been focusing on my new main Instagram which is emmalisatilli. I have really been focusing on that Instagram as it started out personal and of all my travels but since I have been a singer in 2021 I have created more of a music type account. and I have been absolutely enjoying it and loving it.

I started a novel back in January this year, and I have almost finished a 50,000 word novel!! I am excited to share with you my story. Which is, yes, my story. But it is in a fiction style based on a true story of mine, which I am EAGER to share!!!! I am looking at self-publishing, and I have really dabbled into a creativity of mine which has extended to a fun hobby and more creative aspects of mine. I haven’t been working but I have been studying a Certificate of Naturopathy plus I have started a Makeup course with The Australian Beauty School.

I have also recently started a 30 Day rest program with Arbonne. My friend Amanda Albu got me onto it, and by Day 10 I was feeling less bloated, more energy and feeling so great !

I created some affirmations when I posted on Facebook.

🌸 Be kind to your body

🌸 Set some good health goals

🌸 Treat yourself to something once a week

🌸Create healthy habits, not restrictions

🌸 A healthy outside starts from the inside

These things really help me set the tone for my week. I say these things to myself to really give me purpose and excited that I am taking actionable steps to live a more healthy life. I treated myself to Hungry Jacks last night and after I just didn’t feel that great even though the burger was YUMMY. I am into clean eating and nutritious meals, so my intention is to start a blog or entries where I share more of what I eat and what I get up to with my health. I have a Naturopathy website.

I would love to be more consistent in writing more blogs on personal development and self-growth such as talking about topics on self-love. I have started a self-love program and through Ema Lea Anderson. I have gone more in depth with myself and am more aware that I need more self love every day. I have really learnt to love myself and I feel I have had it all my life from focusing on ME as a single person for YEARS. I would love to come up with more blogs for you. And right now I plan to do more content.

On Wednesday I did a photo shoot with Pickled Roots Photography. Stefano was a lovely man, a pleasure to work with and I really enjoyed doing the shoot outdoors in the Hills – Bells Rapids. I highly enjoyed myself. I will be posting my photos on my Instagram for sure.

I am also wondering if I should do anymore podcasts as most of them I have just read out my blogs that I have previously done and not really come up with my own original content that I haven’t already worked on. I did a podcast on reading some excerpts of my book, Enjoying Life Purpose, but I plan to do more self-development and really get into interesting topics.

One girl that I absolutely love following is Lauren L Barri. She really hones in on weekly plans and to do lists which I absolutely LOVE!

Also, recently, I have changed up my style to a more boho, country and modern look.

I bought lamp from Kmart. and a table for $39 which is really modern and I am really starting to like the minimal look. I have also been into watching soft living videos and am really enjoying The Cottage Fairy.

This video is one of my favourites. Soft living is becoming more and more appealing to me as I was a city girl through and through, and loved the high life and fast pace world. but since being in Perth I have enjoyed what I have been given. It is a small city but there is still so much to do, and I go to a different cafe every time I go out most of the time.

Please have a watch of The Cottage Fairy as I believe you will find it very beautiful. I used to really be into sharing fashion and beauty but I want to focus more on other things now. Personal development is more my thing and I love self-help books. Malama Life is a good one too.

I am reading The Neuroscience of Mindfulness, which is a GREAT book. Great for the mind.

I do love reading and I need to use my time more effectively to read more. I borrow so many books from the library and then before I know it it is due to take back. I love to go to the Joondalup library as it is quite big and has more to it than most in Western Australia. I love doing the library, coffee and study.

I also recently made pumpkin pie which I will share on my Instagram page as at the moment my Gigabyts or data is all used up so I can’t share photos in this blog. Will have to fix that when I get the chance.

I know it is not very appealing if I don’t have photos to make it looks more visual and make the blog look more cool but the thought behind actually blogging is better, as it is challenging to read without having to look at photos. Do you love to read newspapers online? Do you read magazines online? I used to but not so much anymore and I am wondering why. I think my life gets 90 per cent caught up with Instagram. I even found myself on it at 1 o’clock in the morning scrolling through even though it goes into night mode at ten, I kept going on for another fifteen minutes which is easy to do. Do you get caught up with the social media hype? Do you have Twitter? I do, but I hardly use it, I use it for music and promoting my music.

OH! and yes, I just bought a new music track which is inspired by Zara Larsson’s song Can’t Tame Her. It is very edgy, modern pop sounding and I am currently obsessed with it. I highly enjoy her music and style, and also really into Mimi Webb atm.

What I am thinking of doing rn, is…… every morning when I get up I will do my online diary. I will make it a daily thing. Hopefully. Let’s see how long that will last……. or even if I will do it tomorrow. LOL

Sorry about not including photos, but maybe it is a good thing. I wanted to share my lamp and table as I really like the modern look. I will look into getting more GB’s and will work on some more blogs for you.

I really would love to see in your comments what personal development podcasts you listen to. Or what self-help books you are reading or have read.

Please comment and I will add them to my list and/or create a list for my next blog! I think I have an idea

Love,

Emmalisa